When it comes to parenting, I’m not perfect.
I’ll wait for a moment while you take that in. I know it’s difficult to imagine.
As long as you don’t ask my kids, the previous statement should have shocked you.
But look at this.
It’s a parenting report card filled out by my orange hair, freckle face olive shoot back in 2007.
I so wish I could remember the name of the book where I discovered this idea. For my family, it’s been a gem assignment.
With no advance notice, we would print copies of the blank report card for our olive shoots to complete. Prior to our report card day, I didn’t load the guys up with yummy desserts and new electronics, the objective was to be honest. Usually I’d just tell the Hubs it was report card time for us.
After returning the completed the report cards to us, the Hubs and I would chuckle and compare notes. “Oh, yes you DO do that!” we’d scold each other and do our best to impose guilt and shame upon one another. That is a sign of a strong marriage, btw.
Then sheepishly we’d gather together to discuss the results.
To give you an idea as to how our olive shoots approached this task, they often wanted to apologize for not being able to give us a higher grade. It’s like we all entered a safe and sacred place. Never did I find our kids were wise in their own eyes in this instance. The Hubs and I were assessed on our parenting prowess. We took the feedback and tried to do better.
And there were recurrent themes, for instance, apparently I yell. For the record, the Hubs is inconsistent.
But, hey I am good at keeping things fun and got an A+ for building family traditions.
On one level, it’s wildly amusing.
On another, it’s immensely humbling.
I’m not a great math whiz. History was never my strong suit. I failed Political Science in college which messed my GPA up for the remainder of my college career. I shouldn’t be surprised I’m just a B average mom with spontaneous moments of greatness. That might be as good as it gets though I’ll keep trying. It would be nice to make the A-B Parenting Honor Roll one of these days. Not gonna give up!
Question: What do you think about this idea? What do you think your kids would say? Is there anything you’d add to this list? I look forward to hearing from you!