August 5, 2011 became a day our entire family will remember. For my oldest OS, it was not only a day that marked the passing of my grandma but Nate endured an additional painful moment that the rest of us didn’t.
|Nate in happier days!|
It was an hour before completion of CLDT training at Fort Bliss. Overall it was a lackluster experience for my OS and I best leave it at that. Putting it mildly, Nate was ready for it to be over and to return to West Point for the beginning of his “firstie” aka senior year. Prior to leaving the base, Nate was relieving stress by joking around and wrestling with some of the other guys. The next thing he knew a much larger NCO (non-commissioned officer) pounced on Nate and threw him backwards. As he dropped to the ground, Nate heard the dreaded pop in his left knee.
In 2007, Nate first heard that “pop” during a soccer game. It marked the end of his soccer season for the year. My OS was 17 when he had knee surgery and began a long rehab for a torn meniscus and anterior cruciate ligament (ACL). In time, he recovered well and was resolute in absolutely never having to relive that experience ever again.
But the Lord had other plans on August 5th. Now on Wednesday, Nate returns to the operating room. Not in the comfortable environs of our hometown but this time at West Point. And on the same knee no less! Tomorrow my middle OS Aaron and I travel to New York to be with Nate before and after the surgery. According to the surgeon, my OS will have a different operation to fix the problem. Based on Nathan’s future job as a 2nd Lieutenant in the Army, the surgeon advised him to have a patellar tendon graft. This is a harder surgery with a tougher rehab and an uglier scar but it insures better results for his long-term success. I guess you could say Nate will have a Soldier’s Knee.
My boy will have to summon a great deal of strength to heal from this surgery. With the help of his fellow cadets (let it be so!) and his faith in the Lord, I know he can do this but I hate that I will be so far away. Would it really be that awkward if I just stayed in the barracks and promised to not be a bother??? 😉 He will return back to class almost immediately whereas the last time, Nate recovered at home for nearly two weeks. Four years ago I could take care of him. I brought him food, as a family we helped him. Nate had plenty of visitors and attention, we all rallied around him. Now I will only be able to stay for a few days. His dorky brothers even had daily competitions on who could collect the most urine in the handy receptacle near his bedside, I doubt anyone is going to volunteer for that job!
So to the extent I feel comfortable, I’m sharing part of my prayer with you, dear friends.
|Suddenly plebe year is looking a lot easier
than recovering from ACL surgery AGAIN!
|One of my sweetest blessings = my boy|
Thanks y’all for praying for Nate and caring enough to read this post…
I eyes spilled over as I read your prayer, because I can just see Henry in Nate's place. From one mommy to another, God bless you all during this tough time!
Praying, praying, praying….
Cindy, this certainly is a "hard thing", for Both of you. I know how Much you Love your boy (I do too), but he will get through this because he has a heavenly father who loves him with a Perfect love (and so do you).
Cindy, this certainly is one of those "hard things"!, for Both of you. I know how much you love your boy (and I do too). Nathan Will get through this because he has a heavenly father who loves him with a Perfect love (and so do you). We'll all be praying…
I am so sorry to hear about Nate's accident and the surgery that he will need. Your big heart is so precious and will bring great comfort to him. Praying that all goes better than you can imagine!
Hello Cindy. Just read about this unfortunate accident. Please know that I will keep Nate and you and the rest of your family in my prayers! It is indeed a hard thing but one that you will all grow from! Praying for the surgery to go well and a speedy recovery!